tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post5232043487957117924..comments2022-11-03T08:45:47.328+01:00Comments on Second Stindberg: Stasis in relationships in virtual worlds and beyondPeter Stindberghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05187648076397777162noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-39011679417723095792009-07-12T15:30:13.749+02:002009-07-12T15:30:13.749+02:00Thank you a million times for this post :) And yes...Thank you a million times for this post :) And yes... experiencing together is really the key. And time in world matters... memories from SL tend to fade faster than RL ones, so I find than when I don't log in much, some parts of SL fades. But on the other hand, I have found a big secret gift in connecting without boundairies. I found that we can really do so much more. SL could maybe be the sandbox for practicing way deeper modes of connecting.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09568494404040977826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-89769675811641169142009-07-11T20:12:58.479+02:002009-07-11T20:12:58.479+02:00Well done, Peter! On the other side of the coin, d...Well done, Peter! On the other side of the coin, despite the juggling of timezones and SL/RL schedules there are those times when two people share the pure and wonderful magic of SL. Upcoming blog on that, of course! But those rare moments of awe, wonder, and affection are worth the stasis, the waiting, the blunted expectations ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-21914961306010204552009-07-11T16:16:13.155+02:002009-07-11T16:16:13.155+02:00You're so right. I have a few (former close) f...You're so right. I have a few (former close) friends who only log in occasionally or have completely left SL, but with whom I still have contact by mail. There's less and less left to talk about with them. I can share my SL, but I can feel by their response that it's not their world any more. That leaves the atomic world as a topic for conversation. But unless you know quite a lot about each other's real lives it will become quiet very soon. Unfortunately.Zippora Zabelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17426309981952581453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-70606664997706852672009-07-11T05:33:52.951+02:002009-07-11T05:33:52.951+02:00Interesting post. I have taken a break recently fo...Interesting post. I have taken a break recently for SL. I felt like there was a tug of war going on between my FL and my SL.k I chose to indulge more in my FL for a while. Now when I log into SL, I feel a little lost, disconnected.<br /><br />Not sure if that's a good thing or not. =)Jooniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17238199777376114515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-33095727862066661982009-07-10T19:31:23.984+02:002009-07-10T19:31:23.984+02:00Peter I love this post. I can relate with your fri...Peter I love this post. I can relate with your friend and her choice to limit her SL time. One day VR worlds and RL will overlap and be seamless, but till then it will always be a struggle to balance the two. Thx for this read Mr. Stindberg. =]dulce303https://www.blogger.com/profile/16494343191039016629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-135355690938071630.post-36037591982329846882009-07-10T18:51:40.861+02:002009-07-10T18:51:40.861+02:00This is a very good and thoughtful post; nice to s...This is a very good and thoughtful post; nice to see one here for once in a while (kidding ;-p).<br /><br />I agree with many points of it and started writing a long answer but, since I have spent the whole week without working at my own blog, I will do a post instead, probably tonight *hugs*.London Spenglerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18381079971368238015noreply@blogger.com